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Get the feeling that you aren’t the
one calling the shots?
That nicotine, alcohol, cocaine, methamphetamine,
heroin, pot, prescription drugs, food, the computer, or gambling are telling
you what to do?
You say you won’t use today, but somehow
you find that you are.
It’s just too hard not to.
Addictions are progressive disorders. They
begin subtly.
You don’t even realize that you have
a strong affinity for the substance or the behavior.
Just that it makes you feel better.
Then you find that it really helps
you over the bumps, so you use a little more, or spend more time on the addictive behavior, such as online gambling.
Then you realize that you can use it even
when there aren’t any bumps.
And finally it hits you one day that you
are going through a surprising amount of the drug or spending a
surprising amount of time on the behavior.
Maybe when you look at your bank balance,
or when your doctor balks at renewing a prescription, or when your
boss or your partner start giving you a hard time, or when the scales surprise you.
Then, it is time to take action.
Like anything worthwhile, breaking free
takes work and time.
The good thing is that you learn a lot about
yourself, so you are able to deal more effectively with this busy
and complex world.
Drug use and compulsive behaviors are a
way of coping. Underlying issues may be many—trauma, post
traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, stress, grief, chronic
pain or others. The reasons for using needs to be attended to. Something
must replace the addiction.
This website has short quizzes which look
at various addictive behaviors. http://www.addicted.com/addiction-resources/self-tests/
I am an experienced addictions counsellor.
Consider giving me a call
for an introductory appointment to discuss your situation. No GST or PST charged, even if the HST is enacted.
Phone 604.836.6840 or e-mail me for an introductory appointment
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